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I have a very low libido and when i have intercourse it

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I have a very low libido and when i have intercourse it feels like i am a virgin all over again.I do use gel but it still hurts.
I take a lot of medication and wonder if this is the problem.
But i would like to know if there is anything i can take to increase my libido.
many thanks
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. David replied 1 year ago.

This is Dr. David

at your age of 57, you are most likely after menopause which means your ovaries have stopped making estrogen

this can lead to vaginal dryness and vaginal atrophy which can make intercourse very painful

that is good you are using gel and lubricant. make sure you use plenty of KY jelly

also ask your doctor for vaginal estrogen creams or suppositories such as Vagifem which can help add more estrogen to your vaginal area and help improve vaginal moisture.

in some women, taking estrogen hormone replacement therapy can help improve their libido after menopause at your age.

ask your doctors about these options which I think will help a lot

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Expert:  Dr. David replied 1 year ago.

paroxetine medication can in some patients decrease sex drive and can cause sexual dysfunction and make it harder to climax.

are you taking the paroxetine for depression or anxiety symptoms?