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Good evening, I am Dr Ruff. Thank you for contacting us this evening.
How can I help?
Good evening, I am very sorry to hear you feel like this.
In any relationship the key is communication. Certainly before considering a divorce you should try to communicate your concerns with your wife and lay out how important and serious this is to you.
You do not feel happy about this, but on the other hand, there may be issues your wife feels the same about.
I would try to open up a conversation with her to start discussing these, maybe ever try a counsellor if this fails.
That is good. In that case you need to express your concern and fear regarding your relationship and that you are not happy - right or wrong, you still feel this way.
Utilise the counselling, use a mediator to move forward with this. I hope this leads to an outcome that satisfies you both.