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My girlfriend recently broke up with me. She said she loves me and is mad about me but she just cant give me the time anymore,she's in final year of college,and that I deserve someone better.She said that I wouldnt be able to understand how she's feeling. She also said that she's loved me from the first time we started going out. We've been going out for 15months, I love this girl to bits I didnt tell her how I felt until we broke up, I haven't spoken to her since we broke up that was two weeks ago. What should I do?
So should I not call her just to see how she is or just wait? And is there ever a chance we will get back together?
You could call her to check in and see how she is but if you do call her be casual about it. Don't fight for anything. Just keep it as a check in to see how she is doing and then let her guide where the conversation goes after that. Keep it brief if she doesn't give you much to work with. You don't want to push something that she may not want. As far as if there is ever a chance that you will get back together I think there is possibility for anything. Sometimes when we break something off and after a little time, we tend to realize how good things were. She may get to that point. On the flip side, she may not ever want it back. I think both are possibilities. What it seems right now is that she just needs some space to figure things out with you, her schedule and life. With time she may want it back and may not. Either way, it's most important that you take care of yourself through it all. It will show her your strength and it will help you through this process. I know it's a tough situation for you and I'm sure you are hurting. Best thing to do is use this opportunity to get back in touch with you again. She will come back if it's meant to be, but don't wait on the sidelines of life for that to happen. Does that make sense?