Hi! I'll be glad to help you with this issue.
I can imagine how frustrating this situation must be for you. You suffer from anxiety and he is not very clear and he keeps changing his story.But one thing seems consistent and that is that he is not ready for a commitment. And it sounds as though you very much would like him to make a commitment to a relationship with you.
So, he indeed may be trying to get a reaction from you. But this question of commitment is there even though he is trying to get a reaction from you. And since he is not ready to make a commitment, you need to decide if you want to wait for him to become ready. Because he may be trying to get a reaction from you since he's not ready to make a commitment at this time.
Therefore, take some time to think if you want to wait for him to decide if he wants to make a commitment or not. If you do want to wait, then keep on trying with him.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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