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Me and my boyfriend can't have normal sex. It has to be weird

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Me and my boyfriend can't have normal sex. It has to be weird and full of taboos (example he pretends to be my dad raping me, or a stranger that has kidnapped me and using me as a slave, or I pretend to be his mother taking advantage of him, or punishing him for being "bad). He doesn't see anything wrong with this, but it's weirding me out. I would NEVER want to have sex with any of my real parents or children, but why does it turn us on so much? I feel so dirty after having sex and I often cry after because i feel so disgusting. Am I sick? And why can't he see it's wrong?
Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Relationship
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Expert:  Michael Hannigan replied 4 years ago.
This would be unusual by anyone's standards. It sounds like it is fringe fetish behavior. It could also be a sign of some serious psychological problems. I'm not qualified to tell you which order diagnose this but I would suggest you talk to a professional and make sure you're not in any kind of danger. This type of behavior can result in a dangerous situation. And, even if it does not, this type of behavior, being a fetish, is extremely unlikely to change and you are extremely unlikely to become comfortable with it. So I would cut my losses .