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This sounds fabulous...he has reached out quickly with texts and letting you know that he enjoyed himself. Don't overthink or put too much pressure out there or on yourself. Let things unfold as they already have and it sounds to me like all things point to a great and positive direction.
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Wondering if you heard from him again and how things are going.
I like that he is keeping in touch and I am hoping he takes the next step and suggests that you go out together again. The next few days will indicate that. May I ask both of your ages?
I don't think it is a bad idea...you can simply say...the place is great...would you like to go there together?
Wait a day or two and see if he reaches out to initiate and if he doesn't and you feel like you desire to take that leap you can say, remember you mentioned the place you wanted to go to? Let's go together. If he doesn't take you up on it, then you know. But he is in contact and if he wasn't interested then I don't think he would be texting frequently. It could be a suggestion that you get together rather than just a casual remark.
lol and yes we can overthink it and worry or we can just do what feels right in our gut and let the chips fall where they may. I am of the mind-set of the latter. I believe in putting it out there..if he is interested he will bit, if not he won't but then it doesn't really matter anyway. You could say, yes, I love that place and it sounds like we should go together...it's cute, it's light and playful.
Yes I do...he may be feeling you out as you are trying to do the same which is why I like the response that I suggested above and if he takes you up on it then great, if he doesn't, that's okay too. Life is worth living and putting your feelings out there.
I know you do...I can hear it and as best you can try and breathe and enjoy the process. I believe that if he wasn't interested he would not be making contact and certainly not as much.
yes you are both feeling the other one out...so it is up to you whether you want to take the risk and respond how we have discussed.
ok sounds great. Keep being open. Let me know how it goes. I am here. Please tale a moment to click on th rating tab to rate my support. Thanks in advance and I am here again if you need.
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Thank you very much. Let me know how he responds.
It is great he is keeping in touch but if he doesn't ask you out in a few days, then you will have to evaluate whether you want to ask him if he is interested in getting together again or if he is just looking for friendship.
So proud of you! Great work and yes good outcome. So now, the ball is in his court..let it play out and you will go from there.