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TherapistJen, LCSW, CPC
Category: Relationship
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Experience:  Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Professional Coach
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I split with my ex 2 weeks ago I told her I wanted her back

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Hi there I split with my ex 2 weeks ago I told her I wanted her back but she didn't know what she wanted. So we met up last Saturday to discuss she still wasn't sure so I had to let her go. She said to me after she may contact me in a month to see if we can try again then when I dropped her off she got out and said love you. I haven't contacted her since I'm trying the no contact game. Can you please advise me
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 year ago.

Sorry to hear about this pain for you around the break up. I think giving her space and time is the best course of action...rather than looking at it as the no contact game, just look at it as giving her what she has asked for. She may reach out to you again as most likely she will miss you but there is no guarantee then either since she seems to be confused as to what she desires. If she rings you again in the future it will be up to you to decide what you want and if you do desire to be back with her and she wants that too, be open and hones and no game playing...that will give you both the best chance.

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Hey me again just a bit of advice my ex keeps phoning me every other day just so she can chat to me what's she trying to say?
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 year ago.

Sounds like she misses you and that's a good thing. Don't play games...just keep giving her the space and if she comes round and you are okay with that then speak to her and see how it goes. No games....

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