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Sounds quite messy for you...I am sorry to hear about this for you. What are you desiring to know? whether to stay with him or not? It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and desires things his way with two girls and each not knowing about the other. Now that it has caught up to him he takes off. If you are concerned for his safety then calling the authorities is always an option. I don't hear that he will be able to fully commit as he has shown you how he operates.
Let me know how I can support you.