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I am not able to provide a call but please let me know if you would like to continue here.
Please let me know what happened with your girlfriend that you felt humiliated and what you need support with.
As I mentioned above I am not able to provide a phone call and that is why I asked if you would like to continue in this chat. If you need a phone call then I will opt out.
I am sorry you had that experience and not sure why she would put you through that. did the two of you communicate about it and how you felt about what happened? That is the best way to work through it.
It sounds like she way trying to be cute and funny which clearly it wasn't and your feelings have been deeply hurt. I understand how you feel embarrassed but the only way to work through this is to discuss how you felt and ask why she would desire to do that to you. give her the opportunity to express herself as well so you can come back together and move on from this experience.
I am sorry that she wasn't respectful. I think if you feel you can't express your feelings to her and she feels it is okay to behave in this manner, then you may need to ask yourself if this is the person that you want to be with.
You need to talk with her about it all.
I wish you the best with your open and honest discussion with your girlfriend. Be well.
Not sure what else you need support with. The best way to get through this is to be open with her about how you feel so you can repair how you felt. I don't hear you are wanting to do that but that would be my suggestion as it is the best way to move through a tough space.