*Resending with slight change,
and additional note at bottom.
I understand that this may be disappointing
However, it is most likely more of an personal identity
issue with your ex-girlfriend, than about you or
anything you may have done. (Or did not do.)
Whenever there is a break-up regardless
of the reason(s), it is very normal that people
start feeling a little lost.
Although fourteen months may seem like a long
time, it is clearly not in the same ballpark as
a duration of three, five, ten years, etc.
It is better that this occurred now, than many
years down the road.
Getting over a break-up can be a painful, and
it will take some time.
There are ways to help the healing process.
You can consider joining a group where you
can talk about this with other people who may
have experienced a similar situation.
It may be a good idea to look for a group where
the person who is in-charge is a legitimate
mental health professional.
Or, you can opt for an individual counseling situation
with a professional, where you can discuss this matter
on a one-to-one basis.
If you decide to pursue any of these options;
a good place to start is with your own
physician, or the local hospital's referral service.
If finances are a factor, then you should explain this upfront;
and perhaps they will be able to recommend options
which are more affordable.
Hopefully, these options will allow you to work through
the healing process so you don't unintentionally miss out on
other opportunities to meet that 'special person.'
Lastly, I always aim to give the best possible service
when answering questions. I hope this information has
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