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I need a bit more info to be able to help you. Please tell me what you are struggling with.
it is. what specifically do you need help with?
It is not uncommon for this to happen...nerves can set in and sometimes if you care for someone deeply it can affect performance. Try and take it slow and not put any pressure on the outcome of your intimacy....just enjoy the moment together and things may progress differently.
I think it sounds like because the connection goes back a long way and you were both nervous it had an effect. Make it fun, light and playful and take the pressure off the outcome and bring it back to a more natural experience.
I am not in a place where I can have the call. I suggest taking things slwo and not focusing on the act or the outcome and just connect and have fun.
Get out of your head a bit if you can and just be.....take your time and even take the act out of the equation for a bit and just enjoy the space.
You would need to discuss with a doctor but it sounds more like your worries are causing it and not some physical issue but if you think it's medical then see a doctor.
I am glad. And I agree, less pressure, more fun, equals success.
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Perfect. Thank you. We have a different screen so I can't see..it used to be faces and now it is stars. Thanks for 5 of them! :-)
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