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Hello, I'm Rafael, an integrative psychotherapist. I'm here to support you. I'm carefully reviewing your post and I'm sorry to know about your distressful situation.
For you to think about separation/divorce, it means you truly feel frustrated, wounded and hopeless about any significant improvement in your husband's behavior and the quality of your marriage, right?
I lament to hear that, then it is indeed overwhelming for you.
When you said he si nasty, you mean he becomes mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive, right?
Please feel free to contact me if you have any further questions since I am here willing and ready to support you as much as possible.
You can contact me using this direct link to my profile https://www.justanswer.com/mental-health/expert-rafael-therapist/, you could bookmark it for easy access, and just make sure you state “For Rafael only” in your request, for other experts to know you want me to reply, and I will respond in less than an hour most of the time.
Thank you for your trust,
You are very welcome.