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You are right, taking to heart what an immature person tells you, especially when he does not take responsibility for his issues undermining the relationship will always be destructive and never help you.
Those are his perceptions and feelings, and you know he dramatically changes from being overwhelmingly into you to suddenly leaving ant telling you the opposite. Then that shows you the level of dishonesty and instability this person presents.