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im looking over your question and will be with you in a moment.
I understand your confusion. He sounds more confused than you. Before I respond, I have a couple questions. Does he have a place of his own? Does he work? Does he share in the expenses? Not drawing any conclusions. Just need this information for perspective.
I think he is crazy in love with you, but afraid to admit it. My suggestion is risky, but I think could pay off. I think you need to call him out on it. You tell him you can’t go on like this. It is either all or nothing. You can’t handle sleeping with him without being intimate. You force him to chjoosekkkkkk. As I said, it is risky.. What do you think?
Basically, I think he go a step further and sleep in separate rooms. You don’t necessarily have to talk to him about it. Just do it. If he brings it up, tell him if he just wants to be friends that’s what you were doing. Does that make sense?
Don’t give him a choice. He cannot rationally say you are just friends and insist on sleeping with you. Even if it is platonic…
He is scared of giving his all, commitment.
I would think so. The only way you’re ever going to know is to test him by pulling away.going away.
It sounds like he is either really resisting his attraction to you, struggling with gender confusion, or just generally confused". Honestly, o suggest you ask him,