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Hello, I'm Rafael, an integrative psychotherapist. I'm here to support you. I'm reviewing your post now and I am sorry to know about your distressful,very concerning and frustrating situation.
No problem. The scenario you have described here is shocking since it shows your husband has not been honest, accountable, caring nor even respectful t you and your family, and that he not only feels comfortable but entitled to manipulate you and leave things the ay they are in a very selfish if not narcissistic way, and I think the more you tolerate his dysfunctional ways, the more you enable them and undermine your health and your family's situation.
My suggestion is for you to get individual psychotherapy, to carefully assess your core needs and expectations, and see how well or not your husband has been able and willing to meet them or not, and being realistic make decisions consistent with what you need, deserve, want and are willing to afford in the present and for the long run.
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Thank you for your trust. Looking forward to supporting you with a therapy session,