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Hi and welcome back. So glad to hear from you and happy to hear things are moving in a positive direction. I think she is able to feel free, happy and flirty because there is no pressure so I worry if you put that discussion out there, she will put up a wall again. If you can, I would leave things as they are and enjoy the connection but not have any big discussion about what you want.
Trust and comfort....and again you are doing great so we stay with the plan and let her ease with you remain and we go from there.
The time frame is unique to each situation...meaning there is none and the reconnecting either happens or it doesn't because someone doesn't share that desire or someone steps out because the future feels uncertain and can't hang in any longer.
You are doing great...you already know what I am going to say...that is how much work you have done! Keep it up and I am always here to support.