Have Relationship Questions? Ask a Counsellor for Answers ASAP
Hello, I'm Rafael, an integrative psychotherapist. I'm here to support you. I'm reviewing your post now and I am sorry to know about your painful situation. Please confirm your request for a private session by clicking the "Call me" button for the website to allow us to proceed with your consultation. Thank you.
Since I have not heard back from you, what I can tell you based on your post is that only you know how much you have suffered because of this person's abusive and immature behavior, enabled by his family, leading to your present situation, which shows this person's inability and unwuillingness to even respect you, then there is no way you could expect this person to protect, love and support you in the long run.
Please find an excellent psychotherapist to support you working on your healing process, grieving your loss, and processing these traumatic events. It will take time and work but you'll be able to heal and grow from it. Rely on a support system and set your healing as your top priority.